The person as something unfinished is constructed through the enigma of the intimate reality. The common thread to identify what I am is to weave change. I take charge of reality, knowing it, destroying it, being reborn. The web holds the tension between the inevitability of presence and absence, so change is part of the process of assuming selfhood. Being determines not being. Not being defines destruction, what is over, oblivion and the new. I believe in overcoming the things that happen to us in life as a liberation towards a moment of calm, the moment in which what was thought to be eternal is broken is the moment in which we realize the finiteness of existence and the value it has. That is why I support the need to break ourselves in order to understand ourselves and thus create an environment of peace, freedom and responsibility with ourselves.